"He's really terrible when it comes to problem solving.  Maybe you need to reach 
out and call your husband...now he really blew it..why would he want his 
daughter to come and play...definitely not over an answering machine like 
that..but don't air the laundry like that on the machine, and be like, the 
friendship's over.  I just feel bad fir Holly...because now she'll tell other 
people, and they'll say, 'Holly's dad said this.'"

--woman outside Bean Town, Sierra Madre, Ca, 2-18-13, 4:48 p.m.